For many, university is the first time when the feeling of impending mortification of getting caught with your hand down your pants is faded behind a locked door.
Between the newfound freedom, stress and sexual liberation that university brings, it’s very common for students to get more in touch with their bodies via masturbation.
If a vagina-owner masturbating makes you clutch your pearls: it’s time for you to leave your preconceived notions and educate yourself.
Vaginas are not these delicate little flowers waiting to bloom. They are the most powerful organ in the body.
Yes, they can cause us pain and make us want to scream. They also can give us the most powerful sense of pleasure which also might make you want to scream.
Here are Braw’s tips and tricks to help you achieve the most rewarding and pleasurable experience.
Incorporate five senses
Our senses have one of the most intense connections to our bodies’ experiences. Therefore, used in a sensual context can provide our bodies with a more immersive experience but also a sense of safety.
Whether it’s a certain perfume that your mind links to a calming or sexual experience, the feeling of freshly shaved legs on clean sheets, the sounds of moans or soft gasps or even the simple sweet taste of fruit – any sense that makes you feel safe or excited can be used to enhance your alone time.
Restrict yourself
Teasing is not reserved for partner play. Practising healthy restrictions within sex can help build up sexual tension to make any sexual play more intense and help you orgasm.
Note: An orgasm is not the goal, your pleasure is. Try timing yourself for small intervals with breaks in between to watch yourself squirm or only focus on a certain area of the body at a time.
How your imagination leads to an empowering masturbation experience
Masturbation can be an exposing experience for anyone insecure in their own body. However, the liberation you can feel when turning yourself on alone is incredible.
Why not immerse yourself in your favourite fantasy? Now, don’t you roll your eyes, we all have a fantasy.
Whether it’s bondage, power play or meeting a whiskey-drinking biker in a random bar that wants to show you the back roads… you know.
Imagining yourself in that situation, dressing yourself up to fit, and making yourself feel sexy and empowered is the first step to understanding and connecting with your sexy side.
Be kind to yourself
In whatever way you touch yourself please remember it is okay if things don’t feel like you think they should. Or you just don’t like. You are not broken. There is nothing wrong with you.
You take this at your own pace, what you may perceive as issues everyone else around you has experienced too, I promise
Featured Image: Pexels.com
You must log in to post a comment.